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Between Being Angry and Taking Action: A Fine Line
March 8, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. Online and in-person
Rev. Elizabeth Harding International Women’s Day means different things in different countries. In the United States, being a woman is super complicated! Emotional, physical and other kinds of labor sometimes define the parameters of what women can accomplish. All the labor that goes into womanhood can lead to unresolved feelings about our relationships. How do we manage that anger and other feelings? Is it possible to channel that anger into spiritually driven social action?
Bio: The Reverend Elizabeth A. Harding grew up at the Second Unitarian Church of Chicago(2U). 2U ordained her in 2007. Married to Kevin, they have two boys, Lucas and Simon. In the recent past, Elizabeth has served as a parish minister, hospice chaplain, hospital chaplain, bereavement counselor, and now she is a palliative care chaplain at the UIC Hospitals part-time. Elizabeth grew up a Chicago Cubs fan and believes their theological purpose is to teach us about suffering…and hope. Elizabeth went to theological school with both the Rev. Mathew Johnson and Rev. Bret Lortie, and now serves with them in a regional capacity.
We will share the plate with our Free Pantry
Believing that, together, we can create something big out of something “little,” The Free Pantry initiative addresses food insecurity while fostering neighborhood engagement within local communities. Click Here to Donate
Happy Birthday to: Art Beneditz (Mar 03), Keith Kruchten (Mar 03), Steve Booth (Mar 03), Theodore Tzemopoulos (Mar 06), Lawrence Hughes (Mar 07), Shoko Chien (Mar 08), Wild Darke (Mar 08), Brian Gustafson (Mar 09), Ken Ring (Mar 09), Mary Caskey (Mar 09), & Madeline Arnold (Mar 10)!
An Opportunity for Transformational (Co)-Ministry! Some Things Change. Others Don’t!
Starting next month, you’ll notice a few changes to the website and the order of service. Beginning March 1st, Rev. Joyce and Rev. Bret will be temporarily changing their job titles to better reflect the scope of their portfolios and areas of authority. More significantly, their relationship will no longer be defined as “Senior Minister” and “Assistant Minister.” Rather, they will both be “Co-Ministers.” It may feel like this is a big change, but in reality, nothing day-to-day will be done differently. In fact, this change reflects how they have been working together for the past six months: through collaboration and consensus, with clearly defined portfolios and an eye toward using a co-ministry model in their work.
Rev. Joyce’s full title will be Co-Minister for Congregational Life. She will hold portfolios for pastoral care, membership and hospitality, small groups and programs, and faith and justice, and she will be the primary point of contact for rites of passage. Rev. Joyce will preach once a month and assist with guest speakers on occasion.
Rev. Bret’s full title will be Co-Minister for Interim Transformational Ministries (taken from new language at the UUA). He will hold portfolios for Board leadership, worship and preaching, denominational connection, transitional development, and staff supervision and support. Rev. Bret will preach twice each month and coordinate guest speakers for additional Sundays. When requested, and in coordination with Rev. Joyce, he may occasionally lead rites of passage.
This shift in language reorients our understanding of ministry from something that can sometimes be perceived as top-down to something that moves from the center-out. The center of the congregation is, of course, you! Our ministers serve you as equal partners in professional ministry—supporting, encouraging, and guiding you on your congregational journey. Now their job titles reflect their practice.
A few brief words about the nuts and bolts of this change:
It does not change the total cost of ministry. We have equalized compensation for two ministers working three-quarter time.
This change is temporary. Following the transitional period, Rev. Joyce wishes to return to her previous job title, portfolios, and hours.
This is an experiment. Interim periods are a time to try new models for ministry and to adapt to opportunities presented by a congregation’s maturational growth needs. This is an excellent opportunity to consider something new.
Ministers will collaborate, yet each is responsible for decisions within their program areas and portfolios. For example, Rev. Bret is primary for staffing and worship decisions. Rev. Joyce is primary for pastoral care and programs. Each minister will report directly to the Board.
More possibilities
A final result of this “experiment” is that it may expand the scope of your ministerial search. You will be advertising a Senior Minister position. However, at the discretion of the soon-to-be-empaneled search team and Board of Trustees, you have the option to expand your search to include co-ministry teams. These are most often married clergy couples who share a single position. Who knows—co-ministry might be something you’re interested in down the road, or not. Let’s see how productive, energizing, and even fun this change in perspective might become.
Wednesday, March 4th
6-8 pm
Deale Hall
Join members and friends of Stateline Indivisible and Ogle County in Singing Resistance gatherings as we lift our voices in songs of love, hope, peace, and justice. This is a simple, spirited way to build solidarity and get ready for the No Kings March on 3/28. No singing experience needed, just a willingness to show up and sing together.
If you’d like to be part of the group, we’re meeting Wednesdays from 6-8pm at the UU Church.
Submitted by Rev Joyce and Donna Ducharme
If you are willing to help out by putting the compost bin into the outdoor Nettle Compost swap spot cabinet after coffee hour on Sunday mornings, you can sign up for your selected Sunday(s) on the sheet near the compost bin in Deale Hall. More details can be found on the signup sheet. If you have any questions, please talk to Rebecca Beneditz or Dawn Nimmo. Thank you!
Starting Point Sessions Thursday, March 5th at 6 pm 4-Session Program Ends on March 19th.
Starting Point is four rich sessions of connection, exploration, and learning that continue from our Getting to Know UU sessions. The sessions won’t just talk about Unitarian Universalism, we’ll experience it! Sessions are ideal for newcomers, members, and friends who would like to learn more and go deeper into Unitarian Universalism.
Join Catherine from The Urban Art Studio in Deale Hall as she guides us in a step-by-step painting of spring flowers on an 11×14” canvas. Each canvas costs $20. You will have your choice of colors and what type of flowers you will paint. This is great for all ages and levels of painters. You can sign up after service with Kendra Asbury or via the link below: UU Spring Painting with The Urban Art Studio If you would like to attend but the cost is prohibitive, please contact Rev. Joyce about financial assistance.
WCCC
Join us for our last WCCC meeting before the March 17th primary! We will be discussing City of Rockford’s vote for a new contract with FLOCK which has a history of violating Illinois State law and, in one instance, allowed a sheriff’s office in Texas to illegally access data collected in Illinois to search for a woman believed to be seeking abortion care in Illinois. See link to article below. As the criminalization of people seeking reproductive care, we must do what we can to safeguard privacy rights in Illinois. Hope you will join us in this important work.
Settled Ministry Search Committee Nominations Please thoughtfully reflect on the following questions prior to our call
When we contact you to ask about potential nominees for the Settled Ministry Search Committee, we’ll focus on the qualities below. Our goal is to form a committee that is trusted, representative, and well-equipped to serve the whole congregation.
1.Representation & Trust
We want a committee the congregation can have confidence in.
Reflect individually and as a family:
Is this person trusted and respected across the congregation?
Do they bring a perspective that helps reflect the diversity of our community (age, identity, involvement, viewpoints)?
2.Connections to the Congregation
Strong relationships help the committee listen well and communicate clearly.
Reflect individually and as a family:
How well does this person know the congregation?
Are they connected to different groups, ministries, or generations within the church?
3.Collaborative Qualities
Search work requires teamwork, listening, and thoughtful dialogue.
Reflect individually and as a family:
Does this person work well with others, especially when opinions differ?
Are they a good listener who can balance speaking up with making space for others?
4.Commitment and Integrity
This role requires time, care, and discretion.
Reflect individually and as a family:
Can this person commit the necessary time and energy to the search process?
Are they known for acting with integrity, confidentiality, and the best interests of the congregation at heart?
Thank you for helping us recognize who might serve this important role in the life of our congregation.
Sunday Morning Meditation 9:15 am
We meet on Sunday morning to meditate and center ourselves for the day. You are welcome to join us each Sunday morning.
We are upholding this year’s United Nations theme, RIGHTS. JUSTICE. ACTION. For ALL Women and Girls.
You will have two opportunities to join the festivities: our morning option on Tuesday, March 3rd at 10:30 am ET, or our evening option on Thursday, March 5th at 7:30 pm ET.
This moment allows us to showcase women here at home and abroad. Spend some time with us, grounding yourself in the joy and love of women supporting women.
You are also able to participate in our special International Women’s Day donation, encouraging giving to support the work of the UU Women’s Federation, the International Convocation of UU Women, and Sister Souurce. This MEDIA KIT makes it easy for you to use in worship, announcements, and during your collection plate time.
Both events are open to ALL GENDERS, so share this with friends in your networks.
Vision:
A loving, spiritual congregation that lives our values through belonging, reason, and action.
Mission:
Like the nature that surrounds us, we evolve as a habitat for spiritual development.
Our deep roots connect us to a wealth of resources that nourish our growth as a beacon for justice, inclusion, and liberation, especially anti-racism and gender and sexuality justice.
Our listening cultivates diverse and multicultural relationships that bridge divisions, strengthen our communities, heal hearts, and foster safety for all.
Our awareness of our interdependence inspires us to protect the shared environment and natural world in which we live.
The Board of Trustees:
President: Wendy Bennett
Vice President: Diane Kuehl
Clerk: Scott Garwick
Treasurer: Bob Spelman
Trustees: Kendra Asbury, Clark Logemann, Neita Webster
The Unitarian Universalist Church, Rockford, IL | 4848 Turner St., Rockford, IL 61107 | 815-398-6322 | uurockford.org |