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Living in the Spirit of Thanks
November 23, 2025, at 10:00 a.m. Online and in-person Rev. Joyce Palmer
Gratitude is more than a passing feeling it can be a spiritual practice that shapes the way we see ourselves, our communities, and the wider world. Drawing inspiration from Galen Guengerich’s The Way of Gratitude: A New Spirituality for Today, this service invites us to consider how cultivating gratitude can deepen our lives.
We will share the plate with The Unitarian Universalist Ministry for Earth
Mission: Unitarian Universalist Ministry for Earth is a seedbed for spiritual grounding and education that inspires deep practices of Earth care, justice and flourishing for all.
Vision: A world in which reverence, gratitude, and care for each other and for the living Earth are central to the lives of all people. Click Here to Donate
Happy Birthday to: Joyce Palmer (Nov 18), Paul Goddard (Nov 18), Steve Gausebeck (Nov 18), Sandi Campbell (Nov 19), Teresa Palmeno (Nov 19), Ivonne Spelman (Nov 20), Barb Basaj (Nov 22), Kellen Hutchins (Nov 22), Jim Parrish (Nov 24), Aisha Moe-Lindvall (Nov 25), Linda Sandquist (Nov 25), & Ryan Vyborny (Nov 25)!
Please keep Libby Parker in your thoughts and prayers. Her husband, Jesse Parker, died this past week.
It’s Your Timeline!
A few weeks ago, I posted a blank timeline on the bulletin board in Deale Hall. It’s part of our first phase of interim work, where we revisit our history and tell the story of this church. Although I also posted instructions, the big sheet of paper has remained empty except for my very questionable artwork. (Save the little goldfish, which makes me happy.) Over the next month, you are invited to add to the currently sparse timeline. Write a memory, attach a sticky note, tack up an old (or new) photo. It could be just your name and when you arrived. It could be the retelling of a favorite church story everyone should hear, such as newbies like me, printed out on letter-sized paper. This church has a story worth telling, and this is your chance.
For the couple of dozen folks who attended the startup workshop last month, they’re aware of how powerful it can be to remember and reflect on our history. That evening, a story of resilience, engagement, and passion emerged. You talked about accomplishments, proud moments, and amazing outreach to your community. Even as you talked through past challenges, you learned about the care with which you engaged conflict and the love you share for UU Rockford. Sometimes, you learned, difficult conversations could have been engaged more directly or quickly. Other times, you learned the power within your long-term relationships and your acceptance that ministers are human beings with unique personalities, strengths, and weaknesses. This is vital to strong, long-term ministries. One thing in particular stood out to me when someone expressed the idea: “We’re too strong to let conflict or challenge break us.” Indeed, you are!
And underneath every human person, institution, and endeavor is fragility and vulnerability. Our timeline is a place to explore all of your past: Where you’ve soared. Where you stumbled. Where you are rooted in particular strengths? Where there are patterns to notice as you envision a new relationship with a new minister, and a new chapter for yourselves.
Rev. Bret Lortie
Due to tech issues on Sunday, we were not able to have a livestream.
Please click below to read the sermon.
Join the Eco Justice Team for an all ages event centered around gratitude! We will be inspired by Native American wisdom and traditions, share music and snacks, read a story for all ages, and have the opportunity to decorate a gratitude journal to take home. All are welcome! If you would like, bring a nature treasure to add to our altar for the evening.
In researching for this event, we found a lot of great resources that we ended up not using. If you are unable to come or would like to learn more about the Haudenosaunee Thanksgiving Address before you come, please check out the links below:
If you have any questions, see Rebecca Beneditz or Dawn Nimmo.
Dear Friends,
Boy, has this been a busy Fall!
First, thank you to everyone who contributed to the organization and coordination of our Fall Auction. Special thanks to Rebecca Beneditz and Alexis Simmons for their hard work. Also, thank you to everyone who contributed items and/or purchased things. I know it was a great time to mingle, share food, and fun, all while raising money to support our many Church programs.
Next, thank you to the Renee Mealey Nominating Team, who have been very busy taking a fresh look at how we will choose a Search Team that will eventually look for a new Settled Minister. Be sure to read Rev. Bret’s columns as he also keeps us up to date on the two-year process of finding a new minister for our Church.
Finally, thank you to VP Diane Kuehl and the Leaders Round Table. These folks have been examining the outdated Committee and Team Charters. (These are available on our website under ‘About,’ and then ‘Our Governance’. Scroll to ‘Charters.”) And if you are curious about the Church Bylaws and Board and Staff guidelines, stop and read those too!
92 people will enjoy dinner parties with fellow members
54 members will partake in parties, excursions, and craft work together
28 members will get special deliveries of food, pies, candies, and soups
107 people gathered for a potluck at the auction
150+ will someday hear a Rev. Bret sermon chosen by Dave Black
The church earned $10,600 for its work.
Many thanks to Rebecca and Alexis for all their hard work on making this happen!
UU Christmas Eve Service
We will be having a Christmas Eve service on Wednesday, December 24, at 5:00 p.m.
Holiday Tree Lighting Friday, November 21 at 5:30pm
Enjoy holiday carols while we await the countdown for the Edgebrook Tree to be lit for the first time this season! Meet in front of Cork, Keg & Spirits (1603 N Alpine Road). Folks can choose to coordinate dinner plans with fellow attendees to further build community!
Carpenters Place Sack Lunch Making Sunday, December 14 after service
Let’s use the season of giving to give back to those that need it most in our community. Meet after service in the lower level of the church to help pack lunches!
Rockford Icehogs vs. Chicago Wolves Saturday, January 18 at 4pm
Let’s all go cheer on the Icehogs together at the BMO Center! Tickets are available now and are $19.90 per person. Click on this link to purchase:
https://www.gofevo.com/event/UUChurch If you would like to attend but the cost is prohibitive, please contact Rev. Joyce about financial assistance.
Sex & Gender Justice Team
Sunday, November 23, Noon: Lunch with the Sex & Gender Justice Team at Disco Chicken! 212 E. State St. This is instead of our usual monthly meeting. Let Lia Gima know BY SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 22, if you would like to join us.
Choir Reminder
Please note that the week of Thanksgiving Choir will rehearse on November 25 at 7:00 p.m. There will be no Choir rehearsal on Thursday, November 27.
MELD Donation Collection
We will be holding our annual holiday collection to support Rockford MELD again this year. You are invited to choose an ornament from the tree with an item requested by a family listed on the back of it. You may choose more than one ornament. Once you have purchased the items listed on the ornament, place them in the bin in the narthex designated for MELD donations. Please do not wrap the items that you donate. Contact Lindsay with any questions reuurockford@gmail.com.
Donations will be collected through Sunday, December 14.
Non-violent Communication Practice Group
Due to the Thanksgiving holiday, our next meeting will be on December 17 at 6:00 pm.
Sunday Morning Meditation Now Every Sunday!
9:15 a.m. in the Library
We meet to meditate together and center ourselves for the day. Please join us for Sunday Morning Meditation.
Community Events
Rockford Urban Ministries The community is invited to this annual event, remembering those who lost their lives to opioid overdose, as we honor their memory by committing to harm reduction advocacy.
Vision:
A loving, spiritual congregation that lives our values through belonging, reason, and action.
Mission:
Like the nature that surrounds us, we evolve as a habitat for spiritual development.
Our deep roots connect us to a wealth of resources that nourish our growth as a beacon for justice, inclusion, and liberation, especially anti-racism and gender and sexuality justice.
Our listening cultivates diverse and multicultural relationships that bridge divisions, strengthen our communities, heal hearts, and foster safety for all.
Our awareness of our interdependence inspires us to protect the shared environment and natural world in which we live.
The Board of Trustees:
President: Wendy Bennett
Vice President: Diane Kuehl
Clerk: Scott Garwick
Treasurer: Bob Spelman
Trustees: Kendra Asbury, Clark Logemann, Neita Webster
The Unitarian Universalist Church, Rockford, IL | 4848 Turner St., Rockford, IL 61107 | 815-398-6322 | uurockford.org |