Kairos May 21, 2024









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Kairos                                                       05/21/2024


All of the Colors — Flower Celebration
May 26, 2024, at 10:00 a.m. 
Online and in-person
Rev. Dr. Matthew Johnson

What does it mean to be a multi-religious faith tradition? Unitarian Universalists are very distinct in our embrace of multiple spiritual perspectives within our congregations and within ourselves. How do we make this work well? We’ll celebrate our pluralism – and share in the flower celebration ritual.  Bring a flower or two to share.

We will share the plate with Planned Parenthood of Illinois
For over 100 years, building healthy communities has been Planned Parenthood’s mission. Everyday, Planned Parenthood of Illinois helps all kinds of people get the health tools and information—and above all the care and compassion they need—to prevent unintended pregnancies or to plan for families when they are ready.

Click Here to Donate


Volunteers for Sunday, May 26
Greeters: Neita Webster & We Need 1 More Volunteer
Welcome Table: We Need 2 Volunteers
Ushers: Barb Wilson & Pam Wilson
Coffee Hosts: We Need 2 Volunteers
Contact Rev. Joyce to sign up at assistminister@uurockford.org

Happy Birthday to: Alice Conrad (May 21), David Lantz (May 21), Henry Smith (May 21), Thomas Sandquist (May 22), Rose Kruchten (May 23), Craig Shaver (May 24), Leo Johnson-Doyle (May 24), Gaen McClendon (May 25), Robert Ticknor (May 25), Rev. Linda Slabon (May 26), Susan Halvorsen (May 26), & Kegan Oehlke (May 28)!


Matthew’s Memo
 
What a wonderful Music Sunday!  Despite some illnesses which reduced the choir numbers, they sang beautifully.  Our guest musicians were fantastic, and all were so capably led by our Music Director Tim Anderson.  If you haven’t already, make sure to mark your calendars for June 2nd when we’ll celebrate Tim’s 20 years of ongoing service to the church. 
 
Also, we are wrapping up our stewardship campaign.  Please, if you haven’t pledged yet, do so right now!  We will finalize our draft budget today, Tuesday.  This is the day (though if we haven’t heard from you we’ll keep bugging you – another reason to get it done!).
 
Do mark your calendars for the Annual Meeting as well – June 9th after service.  Be sure to note the nominating panel report in this Kairos, as well as the call for nominations for the Connolly Award. 
 
You may have heard that I will be on sabbatical for part of the coming year. Our agreement together grants 1 month of sabbatical for each year of service.  Not including the years in which I’ve taken time, four months have accumulated; we’ve found together that keeping this time regular and short keeps me from burnout without making the absence too long.  So I will take 6 weeks in the fall and 10 weeks in the winter/early spring.  The split sabbatical allows me to be present with you before and after this fall’s election, which the board and I agreed was important. 
 
I’m thrilled that the Rev. Allison Farnum will be the main sabbatical preacher.  Rev. Allison is the Executive Director of the Unitarian Universalist Prison Ministry of Illinois and has preached a few times for us, as well as having worked with our board and Faith in Action team.  She’ll cover every other Sunday, as well as working with the Board.  
 
Rev. Bowie Kling-Garcia, a chaplain in Madison, will cover three of the remaining Sundays. Rev. Bowie has preached twice for us before and folks really loved what they had to say, and they are delighted to return. 
 
The remaining five Sundays will be covered by Rev. Joyce (twice), the youth, and two lay-led services.  You’ll be in good hands.  As we get closer, we’ll share who to turn to while I’m away for your questions and ministry needs. 
 
Lastly, if you are interested in being a delegate to the online UUA General Assembly, please let me know.  We have a few open spots. 
 
In faith,
Matthew


Our goals are to pay our staff well and be good partners to the work of the UUA nationally.

Please, if you haven’t already filled out your form for the coming year, do so today.  Go to www.uurockford.org and click on the bright yellow banner on the top.  Or click here to open the form directly: https://uurockford.churchcenter.com/people/forms/706108

Please do so today!


New Database Update

We are moving to a new database at church, and need your help.  Please go to uurockford.churchcenter.com and sign in.  (It’s easy!)  Update your information and look out for emails to fill in info and add yourself to the directory.  You can also scan this QR code: 

Do it today!

Who Makes a Difference in Our Community?

The Social Justice Team is seeking nominees for the Connolly Community Service Awards for 2023. A bit of history of the awards and the nomination procedures follow. If you know someone – or a group of people — you think should receive one of these awards, please turn in nominations to the church office.

History: In 1993 the church initiated a community service award to recognize a member of the congregation for significant contributions to the community. The award was named for Dr. Charles Parker Connolly, minister of our congregation from 1913 to 1942, and a recognized community leader.

To date the award has been presented to the following individuals: Walt Lewis, Mary Caskey, Martha Logemann, Pat Tollefsrud, Sandra Locke, David Weissbard, Lynn Liston, Pat Lewis, Jon McGinty, JoAnn Shaheen, Leigh Lakey, Roger Oehlke, Lola Gustafson, Allen Penticoff, Colleen McDonald, Jackie Dehler, Bob Arevalo, Dave Black, Myrna Lake, Dave Lantz, Barb Giolitto, Duane Wilke, Ellyn Ahmer, Dale Dunnigan, Nikki Ticknor, Bob Babcock, Shiraz Tata, Allyson Rosemore & Rebecca Beneditz. 

More recently an award was established to recognize a young person, 8th grade through high school, for service to the church and community. Recipients to date are Emma Stocker, Katie Whitworth, Sandra Hill, Jackie Whitworth, Emily Pfleiderer, Max Freund, and Ari Almonaci.

The Social Justice Council has decided to have a “group” award.  This award will be for a group of people, formally or informally organized, who have done the work of justice in our community. Two years ago the award went to the Cornucopia Group.

The awards are presented at the annual meeting of the congregation.

The nominations should include:

 A detailed description of volunteer and/or professional involvement and accomplishments, tasks, performed and issues addressed impact on others, and other relevant information.

 A signed statement that the nominee is willing to be nominated.

A nomination should include the name of the nominator and is due in the office (Send to Autumn uurockford@gmail.com) by June 3rd. The nominations will be reviewed and a selection made by the Social Justice Team before the annual meeting.

Get your Side of Love T-Shirt Before Pride!

We’ll be marching in Rockford’s first Pride Parade on June 1st.  We encourage folks to consider buying and wearing a Yellow “Side of Love” t-shirt.  UUs across the nation wear these and we are often known as “the yellow shirt people” – or, even better, the “side with love” people.  You can get yours here: https://www.uuabookstore.org/Side-with-Love-Adult-T-Shirt-P18300.aspx.  If you’d like one, but can’t afford the price, let Rev. Matthew know your size and we’ll order one for you. Do it soon so you have your shirt in time for June 1st!

Instructions for Pride!  Saturday June 1st. 
We stage from 5th st, just east of 7th – near Colorlab Cosmetics and kiddy-corner from Ernie’s Midtown Pub.  The Route will take us past City Market and to the west side.  The parade starts at 11, so be there by then. Wear your yellow Side with Love Shirt if you have it, and bring flags, beads, whatever – make it fun!  We have extra flags too.  

I recommend parking near the end (near the Library, perhaps) and then walking to the start; or parking midway.  You can also pair up with someone to put a car on both ends.  Give yourself time since roads will be closed.  

See you there!

In faith,
Matthew

Wonderful Wednesday
Reproductive Justice

May 22nd at 6pm

Let’s meet at the new Family Planning Center to hear about their progress and plans for opening. We’ll ask how we can support their work.

We will discuss our Unitarian Universalist faith and reproductive justice.

Our Sex and Gender Justice Team is helping organize this event.

Rockford Family Planning Center address: 4236 Maray Drive.

Nonviolent Communication Practice Group
Wednesday, May 29 at 6pm in the Sanctuary


NVC Practice Group is open to anyone with an interest in learning about practicing the Nonviolent Communication process.

The intention of this group is to deepen our NVC consciousness, develop our awareness and practice our skills. We have a set of GROK cards to help us process our feelings and needs together. The process helps us improve the quality of our relationships.

All are Welcome!

Rockford University’s Friends of the Performing Arts is hosting a fundraising event Sunday afternoon, June 2, to help send students to the international theatre festival in Edinburgh, Scotland. 

Enjoy bagpipers (including church member Ken Ring!), strings players from The Music Academy, and more.

Contact Kathy Scarpaci for tickets.
815-391-4401
kscarpaci@yahoo.com

The Eco Justice Team invites you to our Wonderful Wednesday on the church grounds on June 5 at 6pm! We will introduce the new trail map that the Eco Justice team has put together and then walk the main church trail discussing native and invasive plants and getting a renewed appreciation for the natural world around us. We will also share information about restoration and nature access work being done by our community partners. Our walk will end at the bonfire circle for conversation, s’mores, and hot dogs for all – vegan options will be provided. All ages are welcome!

We are pleased to announce that the Unitarian Universalist Church, Rockford will hold a Child Dedication during worship on Sunday, June 9, 2024.  The dedication will be a simple ritual in which the congregation commits to the spiritual welfare and development of the child and their family.  Though the ritual is not a baptism, some similar symbolism will be incorporated into the ceremony.  Children of any age who have not previously been dedicated are welcome to participate in the ritual.  Children who participate are welcome to have their parents and siblings as well as one or two sponsors join them at the front of the sanctuary during the dedication.  If you would like to participate in the Child Dedication, please e-mail Lindsay Trank at reuurockford@gmail.com by Wednesday, June 5.  We hope you will join us for this special occasion!

Supporting WNIJ-FM
 
I admit, I’m an NPR junkie.  If you have your preset on 89.5 and listen to “Morning Edition” and “All Things Considered,” you’re probably already donating to this station.  But your dollars can go even farther if you donate to  them through this church.  One hundred percent of the dollars donated specifically to WNIJ on our website will go to WNIJ over time as we fund spot announcements of our Rockford congregation.  It’s still a donation for IRS purposes, but to the church, and it supports our “addiction,” as well.
 
Submitted by Teresa Wilmot


Sunday Morning Meditation

Led by Mario Caputo

Meets 1st and 3rd Sundays starting June 2

Enjoy group meditation from 9:15 to 9:45, before the Sunday Service! Yogic meditation helps to strengthen and integrate body, mind and soul while bringing a sense of calmness, well-being, and ever deepening self-realization to the devoted practitioner.

Explore a low-impact energizing yoga, scientific healing affirmations and guided breathwork meditation in a small group setting led by Mario Caputo. Mario began studying meditation 28 years ago and has practiced twice a day for the past decade.” We will meet in the Library, possibly outside when the weather is nice.

The Nominating Panel is pleased to announce the slate of candidates to be approved at the Annual Meeting on June 9th, 2024.  

For the Board:
For President: Matt Menze (1-year term)
For Vice-President: Wendy Bennett (1-year term)
For Treasurer: Bob Spleman (1-year term)
For Clerk: Kim Lowman Volmer (1-year term)
For At-Large: Neita Webster (3-year term)
Note: Rebecca Beneditz and Clark Logemann continue as at-large Trustees.

For Covenant and Safety Team:
Alexis Simmons (3-year term)
Note: Matt Menze and Amy Brandon continue as members of the Covenant and Safety Team

For the Nominating Panel:
Spitty Tata (2-year term)
Katy Conrad (2-year term)
Reene Mealey (2-year term)
TBD (1-year term)
Note: Gary Lawrence continues as a member of the Nominating Panel.

We thank all those who have agreed to serve!

ER815 Book Discussion
Thursday May 30, 2024  6:00-7:30 p.m.
 
Join us by zoom for a discussion of How to Fight Anti-Semitism by Bari Weiss. Anti-Semitism now finds a home in identity politics. A hatred that was, until recently, reliably taboo has migrated toward the mainstream, amplified by social media and a culture of conspiracy that threatens us all.
Please read the book on your own and we will discuss it. 

Join the Zoom Meeting here: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81211275487

Book discussions are presented in partnership with Rockford Public Library. 

Looking for a copy of one of the books? The Rockford Public Library is pleased to offer the books for our discussion series in multiple formats. In addition to in print, RPL has many in the Cloud Library which may be accessed with your RPL card.  Titles are available in audio and e-book formats.

 

ER815 Film Discussion

Friday June 14, 2024 
6:00-9:00 p.m.
We will watch Native American Religion in Prison: Great Spirit within the Hole: Native American spirituality was once against the law in the US. Some have reconnected with their religion and spirituality.

 Join us at the Baha’i Center 1650 N Alpine: Lower level in Highcrest Shopping Center. 
We will show the film at The Baha’i Center in person with a facilitated discussion after the showing of the film.

The film discussions are presented in partnership with The Baha’i Community of the Rockford Area and Rockford Public Library.

The Zanzen Meditation group is meeting in the church library every Saturday from 8:00 am to about 10:00 am for silent meditation and friendly discussion. We would like to invite all who are interested to check us out. There is no need to sign up or commit to anything. If you show up and behave we will probably be delighted to have you join us.


Rare Earth Food Collective
 
is an online farmers’ market featuring local food and products. We help producers work together to meet the growing demand for local, sustainable food in Winnebago, Boone, and McHenry Counties. Instead of you driving all over the countryside to buy from different farms, we collaborate to bring the food to you. You can choose home delivery or a nearby pickup location. We deliver orders every Tuesday, year-round. There is no minimum order, and no requirement to order every week. Ordering from REFC helps to build and support our local food community, preserve our agricultural land for future use, and reduce our carbon footprint. It also provides you with fresh food that tastes delicious and is good for you. 

For members who already attend UU regularly, we will be there on Tuesdays in Deale Hall to pack our orders for distribution – meaning you could place an order for Tuesday pick up right at the Church! 

To register as a customer visit: https://refc.localfoodmarketplace.com/

The next pick-up will be on May 28, 2:30 – 3:00. This time period may be adjusted.

The buying window on the website will go live with products (for shopping) from Saturday at Noon, until Monday at Noon, but you can sign up as a customer at any time!

We look forward to serving you!

Click here to view the new library catalogue


WINNEBAGO COUNTY RESOURCES

List of resources that may be helpful to you or someone you know.

VICTIM/SURVIVOR SERVICES
Family Peace Center – 1-779-348-7600 
Remedies Renewing Lives – 24-hour Domestic Violence Hotline – 1-815-962-6102

OLDER ADULT SERVICES
Catholic Charities Long Term Care Ombudsman Program – 1-815-316-0040 or 1-800-369-0895
Mercyhealth at Home/Older Adult Services – 1-815-971-3502
Lifescape Community Services – 1-815-963-1609 or 1-800-779-1189 

SERVICES/ADVOCACY FOR PERSONS WITH DISABILITIES
Center for Sight and Hearing – 1-815-332-6800 P
RAMP – 1-815-968-7467 
The ARC – 1-815-965-3455 

Click Here for More Resources

Click Here for Teresa’s Tablet Perspective: My Epiphany at the Stoplight
Literature Link in Memory of Dale Dunnigan 4/23/24 “Karen Van Fossan, Water Protector”
Click Here to view Ministers and Staff: Duties, Hours, Contact

Community Events

Our Vision: A loving congregation that connects with ourselves, one another, and the larger community.  

Our Mission: We care for ourselves, each other, and our neighbors while taking risks acting for justice. We are continuously building an inclusive, empowered, anti-oppressive, anti-racist, multicultural congregation. Our connections foster radical love for ourselves and others.

The Board of Trustees: 
President: Spitty Tata
Clerk: Kim Lowman Vollmer
Vice-President: Matt Menze
Treasurer: Steve Blomgren
Trustees: Clark Logemann, Sarah Greer, & Rebecca Beneditz

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